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Getting Ready for School




Looking down at your sleeping newborn, it’s hard to believe that in a few short years they’ll be hurtling headfirst towards independence.

School is the first big step your child will take without you, and it can be an emotional and testing time for you both.
But there are ways to help make the transition smooth.

Many tasks you have helped with until now such as dressing, eating and using the bathroom will need to be carried out independently, or near enough.

So if there are any gaps in their skills, working on them in the months before school starts can be really beneficial.

With basic skills nailed, then comes the question of whether you need to prepare your child academically for school.

Does it help or is it even desirable if, on the first day of school, your child knows how to read, write and add up?

According to Joffy Conolly, headmaster at Soho Parish Primary school in Westminster, the best way to help your child is to encourage a love of learning rather than perfecting their reading and writing skills.

“It’s the attitude that counts, not the knowledge,” he says. “The children that really thrive are the ones that come into reception with a keen inquisitive mind and a desire to experience and try out new things.”

An ability to concentrate is important too.

“You notice that children who’ve just sat in front of a television at home aren’t good at concentrating - they are used to being spoon fed,” he says.

Breadth of experience will also prove invaluable.

Knowledge and understanding of the world is one of the first areas in which children are assessed - and it is the children who have had less involved parenting who struggle, he says.

The ultimate goal is to foster a passion for books

“They don’t have anything exciting to draw on,” Mr Conolly explains. “When they have to talk about themselves, they have nothing to say.

“Give your child as many different experiences as possible. Then, when they have to write about animals, they can talk about llamas and mynah birds, not just cats.”

But how much is too much? The ultimate no-no is to be too pushy, particularly with reading and writing.

“Forcing children to read and write too early can damage their development and set them back,” he warns. “You risk them becoming refusers.”

The key is getting your child to start reading or writing on their own.

“Expose them to books,” says Mr Conolly. “Read with them as often as you can. Provide them with paper and pencils - but don’t expect them to spend half an hour each day practicing their looping Js. The hope is that they will pick it up in their own time.”

Very bright children may start reading independently from the age of four. But parents should not fret if their little one isn’t.

According to Mr Conolly, the main mistake parents make is giving their children books that are too hard for them.

“Aim for a one in 20 rule, where no more than one word in 20 is unfamiliar or difficult - and remember, there’s a big difference between being able to read out loud and comprehension,” he says.

The ultimate goal is to foster a passion for books.

“Reading has to come from you. Read to them. Show them why it’s rewarding. Let them understand what treasures lie within - then they will want to discover it for themselves,” he says.

A final word of advice for enthusiastic parents:  “Never, ever compare your child to others,” he says. “That way lies anxiety.”

1. Bug Club Learn To Read At Home reader sets, from £25, pearsonschoolsandfecolleges.co.uk


2. Oxford Reading Tree Read With Biff, Chip and Kipper, 25 books, ages 1-3, available from The Book People, £14 (RRP£125), thebookpeople.co.uk 

3. Usborne Very First Reading, 15 books, £74.85,
usborne.com 

4. Stick Man Early Reader, by Julia Donaldson and Axel Sheffler, £4.99 

5. Learn To Read And Write, A Parent’s Guide, £4.99, Waterstones 

6. I can read! Batman Phonics Fun, £7.22, amazon.co.uk

 

By Deborah Arthurs

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